NAVIGATING INTIMATE PAIN
WHEN SEX HURTS

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When Sex Hurts: Navigating Intimate Pain offers practitioners a comprehensive exploration of sexual pain conditions and their treatment. This four-week intensive course combines clinical expertise with practical interventions, empowering you to support clients experiencing intimate pain with confidence and sensitivity.

Over four weeks, weekly two-hour lectures and small group practice sessions, you'll deep dive into the complexities of sexual pain, including the physiological, psychological, and relational dimensions. Learn about conditions like vaginismus, dyspareunia, and endometriosis, while understanding how societal constructs, relationship dynamics, and personal histories influence the pain experience.

This four-week course is PACFA, ACA and SAS approved.

    THIS COURSE COVERS


    • Societal constructs of sex and gender in relationships

    • The physiology of pleasure – vulva/vaginal arousal systems, things that most people don’t know

    • A discussion on sexual desire and how desire, pain, relationships and daily life are all intertwined

    • Medical reasons for sexual pain

      •  vaginismus, dyspareunia, endometriosis, after birth scarring and more

    • Psychological reasons for sexual pain

      • Attitudes about sex

      • Relationship issues

      • Societal constructs

    • Treatment ideas for sexual pain

    • Consent, safety and pleasure

    • Working with Vulvas

    • Working with Penises

    • Communicating with lovers & partners

    • The fear/pain cycle


    LEARNING OUTCOMES


    • Understanding vulva/vaginal arousal systems and pleasure physiology

    • Breaking the fear/pain cycle

    • Medical and psychological causes of sexual pain

    • Practical treatment approaches and interventions

    • Communication strategies for working with clients and their partners

    • Creating safety and incorporating consent in treatment

    In one lecture with you I learned more about sex than my entire medical degree
    — Medical student

      What people say about Tanya

      • It was such a pleasure learning from Tanya! The knowledge shared during her training has supported my professional growth, really helping me understand my clients better and practical tools on how to support them through their difficulties.

        Desire Discrepancy Participant, May 2022

      • I feel illuminated and enriched from doing this course with you, Tanya. The information given was at the right level for me to begin using it immediately in my work as a singles/couples therapist who wants it not to be a taboo topic in the therapy room. I feel empowered to drop lingering feelings of inadequacy and embarrassment....

        How To Talk About Sex Participant, Nov 2022

      • ...The sociopolitical angle was super important too, and while I feel I was fairly well across this beforehand, you certainly ensured that I now approach sex and relationships (and life!) with commitment to enhancing an understanding of this in myself and those I am around. Thank you for what you do and who you are

        How To Talk About Sex Participant, Nov 2022

      • Tanya is so incredibly generous with her wealth of knowledge. Thank You.

        Desire Discrepancy Participant, May 2022

      • I found the course really interesting and valuable. Thank you for offering it!

        Desire Discrepancy Participant, May 2022

      • You have a beautiful way of speaking about sex and relationships

        Nurse, Workshop Attendee

      • A few hours with you has changed my whole view on sex!

        Aus Workshop participant


      PRACTICAL DETAILS

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        Tanya is offering a number of one-month-long professional trainings.

        This is a rare opportunity to learn from Tanya’s over 20 years of clinical experience. Tanya has extensive clinical experience and has engaged in diverse and cutting-edge professional development with some of the world’s leading sex educators. This cumulative knowledge and experience are woven into simple, practical interventions.

        In Tanya’s training for professionals, her participants gain valuable knowledge and practical client intervention frameworks. These workshops cover important issues, such as consent, sexual communication, relationships, desire discrepancy, sexual pain, and how to speak about sex. 

        Tanya will give you the language and skills to support your clients in navigating their sexuality, pleasure, intimacy, communication, and relationships.

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